Frequently Asked Questions

How long does the questionnaire take?
When completing your questionnaire, we suggest that you take your time. The survey is short, but it's best to put some thought into your answers, so we can create a profile that really makes you shine. Most people complete the questionnaire in around 20 minutes.

When will I get my new profile?

The Real Me team of dating consultants work hard to get your profile back to you as quickly as possible - so you can get out there and get dating. Please allow five working days from the time you submit your completed questionnaire to receive your brand-spanking new profile.

Which dating site can I use my new profile on?

Any. Or all. Go for your life.

Will it sound like me?

Each profile we write captures the unique qualities of the individual – conveying your ‘voice’, your personal attributes, your taste, style and charm.

What will you write?

The Real Me will write you a profile based on the unique personal responses you provide us in your online dating profile questionnaire. We don't make stuff up.

What if I would like to change something?

It's unlikely that you will want to change anything, since your new profile is comprised of your personal responses to the questionnaire. Forgot to mention your love of Bassett Hounds, basketball or bonsai? Get back to us within 24 hours of receiving your new profile and we’ll add the details.

Why use a professional?
There’s no harm in enlisting the help of a professional to get the best results possible. People use professionals to get great results in lots of areas of their life - and a professional writer will give you a great dating profile that will help you stand out from the crowd.

Should I tell my date I used The Real Me?
If your date compliments you on what a great profile you have – and there’s a very good chance they will – you can simply say that you had a little help from a friend. (Chances are, if their profile really stood out, they probably had a little help too!)

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